Speed Dating For Kinksters - by Tom
Unless you’ve been living under a rock you know about the trend toward speed dating, where people pay to meet a group of prospective dates and each short meeting lasts five or ten minutes; the idea is that if both parties later agree their contact info is revealed to each other at the end of the evening.
Well what about less conventional interactions? Think about how cool it would be for someone in a bit of an alternative lifestyle, or curious about it, to just go to a speed dating event where they could have short limited encounters with others who might manifest their fantasies.
In this world, as in conventional dating, there is a lot of wasted time and dead ends. If you go to a fantasy provider in a dungeon or private session, perhaps you have seen her picture, and spoken briefly on the phone, but you are basically rolling the dice as to whether she will be what you hoped to find.
Steve Savage’s Footnight is essentially speed dating for exactly these types of people – and better yet you can decide with whom you would like to session, if at all, and for how long. And you can talk to the women in a social setting prior to getting into even a brief session.
While the main kink element at these parties is obviously foot worship, in a brief foot session you can get a very good idea of how you might fare in a differently oriented session with this person without committing to drive across town or pay hundreds of dollars.
Many of the ladies are interested in getting together privately and you don’t have to wait til the end of the evening to exchange phone numbers. You can do that when you settle up for your session.
While it’s true that the sessions are free in speed dating you are also committed to sit down and meet many ladies that you know immediately are of little or no interest.
At Footnight the brief sessions only happen when there is a mutual desire. In the meantime you can mingle and talk or just hang out. There’s food and music, and it’s a mellow scene.
But the main advantage is that you can meet and get to know a wide variety of women who you would be hard pressed to meet otherwise, and without committing to a potentially embarrassing or disappointing longer private session.